Friday, November 19, 2010

Jasmine's wedding 19 Nov 2010

The day has come, the day where this small little girl has always dream of...As I'm also doing my planning for my wedding dinner, the more I see what's happening in her wedding the more I think having a wedding dinner is just something that we do it for the sick of "having face". I will not go into details of it as this is not the subject that I want to blog about, perhaps in the future I'll post it in my wedding blog.

Well, we reach Jasmine's home at around 10am as she is my younger cousin so she is suppose to 敬茶 to me. This is also the very first time I am drinking this tea and giving the ang bao to the wedding couple. The couple were back home around 11am, and the drinking tea session start once her 阿嬷 is here. For the elderly, everyone take turn to be serve the tea. We waited for our turn, and I keep taking photos of them at the back. The whole drinking tea session is really 百感交集, Jasmine's mom cried during the session. When it was my turn there were a lot of feelings to it too, as we were really close when we were kids I treated Jasmine just like the feeling of my little sister. Well this tea is really special to me, and I really wishes her all the best and happiness to her future life. Be happy always.

During the dinner time, there were photo montage showing the photos of Jasmine & her hubby's from kids to now. There were a lot of photos of the our cousins when we were young, group photos of us when we were playing. She were then a cute little girl of cos now also cute lah... There were so many feeling and happy memories flashing back, back then we were so happy playing in a group. It was so funny to look back at the photos, we were all so drama....or is it just me? No no all are drama.

Anyway, I am so happy to see this girl enjoying her special moment that day. This is going to be always remembered in her life. After that is a real married life, it's going to be a different ball game. Jia you Jasmine. You are always loved in this big family. :D

Here's the group photos we have taken.

Change for Good or Change for Bad?

As I mention earlier on there were some changes in the office this week. Here comes our new boss and I have work for 2 days this week with him only as I'm on leave. I have already felt the difference and I am kinda worried for the next coming half year. Will this change in the organisation chart be a good one for us for will it be a bad one for us? I am still thinking on a negative side of it, this is me. I have sense something bad for me when I'm on leave this 2 days. I set my office email forwarding to my personal email for this week and I am doing my spot check once a while at home. I already notice there's some shit coming in, this is bad....as I'm on leave I think that the job should be pass on to another colleague which is working and not me.

Reason being, the manager is going on 1 week leave when I'm back next week. Which means she couldn't hand over what's outstanding to me. So should she give the job to another colleague who's around? But no she did not.... and how am I going to help her follow up next week when I know ZERO of what she have done so far? Not only that on hand I already have 2 important projects for next year in the mids of preparing, how would I still have time to assist in this pieces of shit? Just KILL me.

Anyway it's going to be a very challenging year ahead for me, even through I was still hoping for some feedback to my division head and some adjustment to be made....which I'm now wondering if I should feedback or I should just keep quiet. Haiz~

Aside from the above complaints....there's also some "shows" going on last week. There were some arguments between 2 colleagues, the hates in between the 2 of them were out of controlled. I watched the interesting fights and I think it's really too over. I guess there's only one can stay this time round...and who will stay everyone knows. So will there be another farewell soon? I guess it will be after the bonus...

I guess 2011 work life for me is going to sucks.....I guess there will be more complaints of work in this blog...haha bare with me wor...I think I must go pray my god ma soon...hope this will help.

Wednesday, November 10, 2010

Women love ~ Heels


Women's love is indeed heels, or put it in another words SHOES! I'm definitely one of them, I can't leave my eyes off shoes. I can still remember days that I love heels, even through I am consider tall I'll wear shoes that is around 3 inches. Colleagues around me will stare at me and refuse to walk beside me when I wear them. And even if my work require alot of walking, I refuse to wear flats. But ever since I am attached, hahaha my hubby's height is 1.72m where else mine is 1.67m in between is only 0.05m. Yes there isn't any problem for me to wear heels as I'll still look shorter than him but somehow I find it weird to wear too high standing beside him. And that period of time fashion was on flats, so I started to wear only flats.

After a while not wearing heels, you foot can no longer tahan the pain of wearing heels. But there are still times that you have to wear heels, times like attending dinners. Recently my back and kneel isn't very well, so if I wear heels for too long it will start to be painful. Just like today, I have got a meeting with outside company so there's a need to dress up for work. So I wear a pair of heels not a very high one, thought that I have a pair of flats at office so I can change to flats. But when I off work my back & kneel is pain again....But still!!! I love heels!

Here are some of the way to make yourself more comfortable wearing your heels

~ Put a pair of flats in your office - have a flip-flops or a pair of flats that can match any outfits in office. So then you can change to it any time if your foot are in pain.

~ Put some cushion inserts or gel pads inside your heels - There's a lot of gel paddings available at the shoes department in the department store. Stick them into your heels, I think it will helps. I have never tried before, but I'll get some to try it out.

~ Season your heels - No pain no gain. You have to bare with the starting "getting use" to the new shoe pain and wear it more often to season it.

~ Bite your new heels - This is a old traditional way that people will use, people believe that bite your shoes first before they bite you. haha I do use this sometimes...hahaha

~ Always have Plaster - Keep some plaster in your bag, you really never know when you will need it. Especially if you are wearing new shoes, you never know if it will cause blister.

~ Baby steps - Some people say when you wear heels walk in smaller steps so there is less pressure on your foot. No running in heels, that is painful.

~ Limit the days with heels - Don't wear heels everyday, so that your leg can have some rest day too.

~ Massage your legs - If they are tired, massage them but using warm water. It will feels shiok.

Tuesday, November 9, 2010

Yet another change in the Dept~


This afternoon the Department received a shocking news that it caught all of us off guide. Our Department manager will be transferred out of the Department with effect from 15 Nov 2010. Which is NEXT WEEK!!! There's a sudden change of some positions, our dept manager will be transferred to other dept. And another Assistant Division Manager will be coming up to take over his position.

Although, I know that at anytime any one can be transferred and replaced. I should be use to restructure in the dept and getting used to yet another change of my direct reporting boss. But this time round I'm upset, I even cried after the meeting. I don't know why but I was kinda panic as I don't know the new boss that is coming is what kind of working style. Not only that I think I am kinda depend on my current dept manager. Although sometimes I think he is a little too weak in decision making, he was still a good boss that will lend you a listening ear. Not only that I think he was so far the only boss that we can bully. Sometimes I do agreed that I have bad temper, so I will throw temper on him. Well I think in the future I can only keep all my temper
into my stomach.

Hubby think that I think too much, maybe situation might not be that bad as I think. I know I'm a negative person sometimes, I'll just think of the dark side first so then I'll not have expectation then I'll not get disappointed. Anyway, the dept is going to
change again and it's not gonna be the same somehow.

Sunday, November 7, 2010

Today's the day~ Let's get healthy together~


If you have notice recently there's a TV Adv for a health campaign, there's this song in the TV adv that I think it is nice. And yes, we are getting very unhealthy Singaporean. We don't exercise enough and we don't eat well too due to the stressful life-style.
Recently I'm doing some changes to my life-style too, as per what I mentioned before in my previous post. I need to cut down some intakes and increase some intakes. I do think that I am processing it well, I really did cut down lots of coffee intakes. Coffees are no longer a daily beverage that I need before work. But some times I still have the craves for it, so I took 1 cup. I have also tried to cut down heaty and spicy food and I guess this isn't quite difficult. Not only that I continue to drink lots of water, took yogurt drinks more often as well.

The next move I'm gonna take is to take vitamins C daily....So today's the day! I brought the Vitamins C this afternoon finally! I'm gonna bring 1 tube to office with me tomorrow and start my daily intake of 1 tablet of vitamins C drink. I'm hoping slowly I'll also get Dear to join me for a better life-style and eating habit.

Why Take Redoxon Double Action? For Vitamin C to enhance our immune system effectively, our body must have sufficient Zinc. Zinc is an essential mineral required by our body to maintain a healthy immune system. Together, Vitamin C and Zinc prepare our body to resist not only colds, but also other illnesses like fever and infections. Taken daily, Redoxon Double Action replenishes our body's Vitamins C and Zinc levels to provide optimum support for our immune system.

Tuesday, November 2, 2010

Blogging the truth?

I suddenly have this through, do people really blog about the truth from their heart? Some people will say yes because it's their blog it acts like their diary so they can write what they like. But then blog is consider as a open diary, anyone can see it online. So if ever the person that you don't wish to let them see your blog happened to see it and got upset with what you have written, how will you react? You can't control one's thinking, it might be just a thought of your mind but they take it seriously how?

In my point of view I think you should know who are the group of people who will read your blog. Then you should just know what are the things you should and you can blog about. Although it's you blog but then...everyone can still see it. Haha Well I'm blogging rubbish again. That's the way I waste my time. hahaha

Monday, November 1, 2010

Ultra scan result

Ultra scan result were out last week, result were the same as the one I did 2 years back. There's nothing that is serious and need attention to. Doctor advise is to take extra care over the urine issue, guess will still be my same old way. Less caffeine, Less spicy food, Less Alcohol, No Beef, More water, More yogurt and More Fruits. Doctor mentioned if it happens again then he will refer me to a specialist and for that it might be costly.

Dear wanted me to look for specialist as he didn't wish to see me in pain anymore and want to know what's the real problem. But I am kinda scare to go to the specialist or gynae. I am just scare....

Well for now what I can do is to really take good care of my health and extra careful with what I eat as well. Wish everyone stay health.