Decong is my hubby's best friend from his kids days, hubby is one of the brothers for his wedding. Today is really a very interesting day for me, even till now I can't forget what actually happened and keep pondering me. I think I must record what happened today as I somehow do not wish that I will behave this way once again.
Hubby went to stay over night at Decong's place yesterday, so I have to get myself prepared for the wedding and travel to the hotel myself. It's a lunch wedding, so I got up early to get myself prepared. Didn't expect that it actually rain today, and it caught me off guide....I totally didn't realise that it will be hard to get a cab during raining days...even calling cab is also mission impossible.
So I depend on my luck and decided to stand in the rain by the road side to hope that there will be a cab....but never did I expect after standing in the rain for almost 15mins luck is not on my side...no cab~ Most not expected was a mini bus stopped in front of me the door open and the uncle driver shouted "Miss, where do you want to go?". I got shock but I still replied that I'm heading China Town Furama Hotel. The driver then offered to give me a ride to Furama....I guess this was the craziest thing that I did was I actually hop onto the mini bus....Once I got onto the bus I got a bit scared and wonder what should I do...I wanted to sms Hubby what have I done and ask what should I do. But after second thought if I sms him, he will straight away called me and start to be very worried and will ask me to alight the bus...By then I'll not know what should I do...I decided to on my GPS and see if the driver is heading the right route towards china town. Indeed he is driving me towards that direction, in the journey the driver keep talking to me. He mentioned his family members and how he believe that he need to treat people good then his son will be well as his son is sick...at that moment I think that maybe he is a good person, but in my heart I am still worried that he is up to no good.
In the end I did went to Furama Hotel safe & sound and I told Hubby & frens what just happened. All of them were shocked why in the earth I hop onto the mini bus as it is really very dangerous. I start to ask I really didn't think much during that time, I think somehow in my heart I do think that 人性本善...I start to ask maybe the uncle is really a 好人做好事 but why will we just treat and think that he is up to no good? I ask my hubby actually what went wrong? In first intension everyone will think that uncle is a bad person so I shouldn't hop onto the bus but nobody will believe or think that he is just 好人做好事. Hubby think that it's the society in singapore and how we were bring up...we will always protect ourselves first and there will always be a invisible wall that will block & blind us from seeing good things in life. But of cause not all cases will like this and we really can't believe in people to easily. I have been thinking this very hard the whole day till now I can't figure out 人性真的本善吗? 是我太容易相信人还是我错怪好人?...... I guess I will never dare to hop onto anyone's car anymore... what do you think?
